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BREAKFAST SERVED HOT

Stella i got tired of my husband and i served him breakfast so hot that he will never forget
The deceit, cheating, disrespect and unruly behaviour finally got to me and i went the extreme to claim back my mental health...

I work hard and have done quite well for myself and single handedly pay the school fees of our teen daughters because it seemed as if i committed a crime birthing girls for the wicked man....I am so successful financially that spending any amount of money means nothing to my account..I cannot go into too much details cos I am not used to putting out info and don't want anyone to spot me here so some details may be altered but the true story is unchanged.

He lives outside of Nigeria and i built the mansion we live in single handedly while he sat back and took all the praises from family and friends...I put my kids names on the papers and he raised the roof but i didn't change it..

So whenever he visits, while i am at work he gallivants round town in my cars while the ladies were at his beck and call..
The last time he visited and demanded to sleep with me after a night out drinking, i refused and he beat the living daylights out of me and told me all the horrible thing you tell to an enemy,he called my daughters useless ans swore he would never takecare of the girl child, said since i refused having more babies, he was trying his luck outside for a son.

As he rained slaps and blows on me, i cried becos the words he used tore me apart...that was the first and only time he ever beat me but he told me he would ''off me'' next time.
The next morning after the beating he went on his knees and begged with tears and i forgave him and made him promise never to do it again...
He travelled back some weeks later and i changed the locks as soon as he left and called security not to let him back into the estate anytime he comes around....

I took all the necessary steps to protect myself and the girls financially and otherwise and i called his people to come and collect his bride price...everyone was shocked!!!
I did not take his call and refused to discuss details of why i took such decision.

I also got myself a rich boyfriend but we are yet to do the do cos i want all my divorce process to be over.
The bride price has been returned to the village head since his family did not want to let me go....My Lawyer assured me that the legal process would be over soon.

Now guess what? he is presently in Nigeria and is telling everyone who cared to listen that he walked out and that i am the one who told him not to help his family and friends financially and some are thanking God wile some do not believe him.
he has refused to talk to his daughters calling them small ho's like their mum and they have blocked his numbers....
One told me that he has been playing with her small growing b##bs and told her not to tell me cos I am too stressful and will turn it into big drama......GOD SAVED ME!

I am happy and have gotten my groove back after 20 years with this man...
I am planning a divorce party for December outside of Nigeria...
I am happy to be out of the toxic marriage and urge anyone in a toxic marriage to decide if staying or leaving is better...
I changed so many details here but what happened has happened and i am happy and ready to explore the world with my girls.

Enjoy your new life.