Cleric urges women to DEFINE relationships to avoid wasting time

Lagos-based cleric, Kingsley Okonkwo, has advised women to clearly define their relationships with men to prevent time-wasting.

Speaking during a sermon, he urged women to ask important questions early on.

Cleric urges women to DEFINE relationships to avoid wasting time

“Women ask the best questions when they are not in love. Once a woman is in love, she doesn’t know the question to ask. If you are a woman, one of the things you need to know about relationship is that it is important to define relationships, make sure you know what you are in,” Okonkwo said.

He noted that many women feel afraid or ashamed to clarify their relationships, which often leads to problems.

“Always get ‘what’ clear. I tell ladies, don’t be available for dating, be available for marriage. Someone will say, ‘Will I not date before marriage?’ We date with purpose, there is an end point. Don’t just date for dating’s sake.”

The cleric emphasized that many women blame men for broken hearts, but the responsibility often lies in how they approach relationships.

“Many women go about saying the man broke my heart. He didn’t break your heart. You broke your heart. A man came and said ‘I want to date you,’ and you said ‘yes,’ and he dated you for seven years. Has he lied?” Okonkwo explained.

He concluded by reminding women not to enter into indefinite relationships. “Don’t sign up for those indefinite relationships,” he said.

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